If we men are honest with ourselves, then having the skill of knowing how to get a girl in bed with you is something that most of us would like to have. It's not as simple as that - getting the knowledge and then suddenly becoming a master pick up artist. But I do believe doing these things will give you a good foundation.
Because as you must realize, success with a woman does not depend on you doing the "best trick" in the book or using THE ONE technique. It's when you put all of them together that you start to move forward fast. Read through these points well.
1) Dress really well. Wear a really nice shirt, nice jeans, and pay special attention to the shoes. Black goes well with everything.
2) Practice slow, confident, in-control body language. Do it whenever you can. I have actually taken the time to do this in my room. Stand straight, shoulders back. It's the sign of a masculine man.
3) Develop an expressive voice tone. Don't go overboard, but do change the way you talk. Pause more often. It exudes mystery.
4) Smile. You must realize the importance of having this as a habit. Whenever you feel down, when you feel insecure - smile. Practice in front of a mirror for 10 minutes. Do it.
5) Do things to impress yourself. Do not give a second's thought to what she thinks about you.
6) Do not have an agenda. Women can smell your intentions a mile away and will be repulsed.
7) Stop relying on luck. Everything YOU are doing is either amplifying or weakening the attraction she feels for you. And you can control everything that you do.
8) Have an abundance of women. If she's the only girl that has paid any attention to you in the past 90 days, you are going to be very nervous and you won't want to blow your chances. She's going to be worth her weight in gold to you. Stop that. The less you care about what a woman thinks of you, the higher (most times, many times higher) your chances will be.
9) Practice, practice, practice. Do not concentrate on getting the girl. Concentrate on learning the skill. There are actually quite a lot of attractive women out there in the world, but if you're going to act like she's the only one, it's over.
10) Make friends with really beautiful, sexy women. I've approached many women on the street, at events, in clubs, who turned out not to be quite the girl I was expecting and looking for. When this happens, if she has a good energy, just keep her as a friend and hang out with her.
11) Be judging her. Don't let it happen the other way around. Communicate that you are the selector, that you choose which girl gets to hang out with you.
12) Build an emotional connection with her. This is only once you're at the point where you have selection with women. Do not do this as a technique. But truly let yourself go and open up to the girl.
13) Get the logistics handled. If you don't have the cash to get a taxi, if your roommate is at home, if your bed is messy, if she has to leave after your date, then things are not going to be easy.
14) Oh, by the way, forget what I said about dates. Don't go on dates. I don't do dates, and I recommend you don't either. You can get to know her a lot better in an environment which makes it easy to be natural and open.
15) Learn. This is obvious. Keep learning and taking in new information about this skill all the time. You have to keep at it to get good. And you can become good if you really want.
Because as you must realize, success with a woman does not depend on you doing the "best trick" in the book or using THE ONE technique. It's when you put all of them together that you start to move forward fast. Read through these points well.
1) Dress really well. Wear a really nice shirt, nice jeans, and pay special attention to the shoes. Black goes well with everything.
2) Practice slow, confident, in-control body language. Do it whenever you can. I have actually taken the time to do this in my room. Stand straight, shoulders back. It's the sign of a masculine man.
3) Develop an expressive voice tone. Don't go overboard, but do change the way you talk. Pause more often. It exudes mystery.
4) Smile. You must realize the importance of having this as a habit. Whenever you feel down, when you feel insecure - smile. Practice in front of a mirror for 10 minutes. Do it.
5) Do things to impress yourself. Do not give a second's thought to what she thinks about you.
6) Do not have an agenda. Women can smell your intentions a mile away and will be repulsed.
7) Stop relying on luck. Everything YOU are doing is either amplifying or weakening the attraction she feels for you. And you can control everything that you do.
8) Have an abundance of women. If she's the only girl that has paid any attention to you in the past 90 days, you are going to be very nervous and you won't want to blow your chances. She's going to be worth her weight in gold to you. Stop that. The less you care about what a woman thinks of you, the higher (most times, many times higher) your chances will be.
9) Practice, practice, practice. Do not concentrate on getting the girl. Concentrate on learning the skill. There are actually quite a lot of attractive women out there in the world, but if you're going to act like she's the only one, it's over.
10) Make friends with really beautiful, sexy women. I've approached many women on the street, at events, in clubs, who turned out not to be quite the girl I was expecting and looking for. When this happens, if she has a good energy, just keep her as a friend and hang out with her.
11) Be judging her. Don't let it happen the other way around. Communicate that you are the selector, that you choose which girl gets to hang out with you.
12) Build an emotional connection with her. This is only once you're at the point where you have selection with women. Do not do this as a technique. But truly let yourself go and open up to the girl.
13) Get the logistics handled. If you don't have the cash to get a taxi, if your roommate is at home, if your bed is messy, if she has to leave after your date, then things are not going to be easy.
14) Oh, by the way, forget what I said about dates. Don't go on dates. I don't do dates, and I recommend you don't either. You can get to know her a lot better in an environment which makes it easy to be natural and open.
15) Learn. This is obvious. Keep learning and taking in new information about this skill all the time. You have to keep at it to get good. And you can become good if you really want.
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